A Farm Funeral
In the early 2000s, the stigma associated with AIDS, as it was then called, made it an unmentionable disease. This was amplified in rural settings, where everybody knew everybody’s business. It also meant that the rural impact of AIDS was completely underestimated and under-reported. I have chosen not to use the names of the people affected in the captions, but you will see her name in one of the images.
The young woman whose funeral I attended, was a member of a family that had lived on this (white-owned) farm for generations, and they still continue to live there. The cause of death wasn’t publicly acknowledged at the funeral, but her mother wanted me to know. Years later a distant relative of the family saw this series of images on my portfolio site that I had provided when I was applying for a commission at a company in South Africa, where he was employed. He got in touch and berated me for making unfounded claims and displaying their shame in public. I had to tell him that her mother wanted people to know. And that’s all that mattered.
![Community members and family from the farms and nearby Ficksburg town in the eastern Free State, South Africa, attend the wake and funeral of a young woman who succumbed to an Aids-related illness. Her name is intentionally withheld from the caption](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5e617aeeb8a87b55bafab96d/1607958695126-UOZDYEN2EASXOP20ZETM/01Aids-02.jpg)
![The night vigil. Photo Leonie Marinovich](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5e617aeeb8a87b55bafab96d/1607958696005-WJKLD8MMP4EICQ6J9ZK9/02Aids-06.jpg)
![Female relatives keep watch over the coffin of a young woman who succumbed to Aids-related illnesses. 2002. Photo Leonie Marinovich](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5e617aeeb8a87b55bafab96d/1607958704861-JWNMM35HIQ41ZAWAXJEQ/03Aids-08.jpg)
![The female relatives support the mother of the deceased during the wake. She will not be left alone during this period. 2002. Photo Leonie Marinovich](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5e617aeeb8a87b55bafab96d/1607958704208-JXHZTHHV9PY1W3IL5Q6D/04Aids-12.jpg)
![Family members support the mother of the deceased, wrapped in blankets worn by the Basotho people of Southern Africa. 2002. Photo Leonie Marinovich](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5e617aeeb8a87b55bafab96d/1607958705270-U6H8AOK4170LUXYNMB09/05Aids-15.jpg)
![Community members and family from the farms and nearby Ficksburg town in the eastern Free State attend the wake and funeral of a young woman who succumbed to Aids 2002. Photo Leonie Marinovich](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5e617aeeb8a87b55bafab96d/1607958712813-8V8PIJ4CBYJZLUPTRS7C/06Aids-14-2.jpg)
![The men see to the burial in the small family burial plot on the farm where they live, near Ficksburg, Free State Province, South Africa. Photo Leonie Marinovich.](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5e617aeeb8a87b55bafab96d/1607958713135-G69ASUHW86DQQJTLQTYA/07Aids-19.jpg)
![Male relatives cover the grave with stones. The headstone will be erected after some time for mourning has passed. Photo Leonie Marinovich.](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5e617aeeb8a87b55bafab96d/1607958720715-GGNEB1ATYMLGLK3JQRIE/08Aids-16.jpg)